Trendy or Timeless

IMG_7481 Want to have the wedding to end all weddings this 2016? One that everyone will be talking about for years to come and for good reasons? It might be a good idea remember to hire a Wedding Planner to help you navigate these new trends emerging in 2016. While you are deciding if that Wedding Planner might be in the budget, here are a few things to remember as you decide if your wedding will be trendy or timeless. Both can be good, bad and happen at the same time.  So will your wedding be trendy, timeless or both?

Start by asking yourself...

Who are youIt is important to remember who you are. Not only who you are but who your love is as well. Are you trendy? Always changing and up on the latest things. Your wardrobe, hairstyle and likes change with the new trends and not only does it excite you but you own it.  Looking proudly back at the pictures of you in, what is now some ungodly outfit and hair style, with pride and found memories? Or are you more timeless? Constant in your wants, desires and looks. Perhaps drawn to the latest trends but a bit afraid to actually partake in them. If the second one is you. Your wedding may not be a good time to bust out of your comfort zone.


Where are you from? You know the saying, you can take the girl out of the country but you can't take the country out of the girl? Most of us have heard it before and laughed at thought, knowing how true it is. For better or for worse you are a product of your surroundings. What you do with it is up to you. Just because you are a country girl or a city girl does not mean you can not get married in the opposite location. A country girl adding hints of country to her city venue can be trendy and timeless.


What do you love? By now you have probably realized and can distinguish what you like  and what you love. What you like changes and what you love either does not or is much harder to change. If you love something you are willing to fight, defend or do what ever you need to protect the thing or idea you love. If you look at an idea and you like it, add it to the list and keep looking. If you look at an idea and you love it, gather it, harness it and make it your own. Looking back you will be so glad you did.


Trendy or timeless? It can be hard to decide under which category the things you like fall. Trends are always changing. With the use of filters and professional photography, it is easy to get lost and fall prey to the picture you see. The photo may be awesome, the idea alluring,  the color scheme something you have never thought of or perhaps it is a dress you have never seen before. Before you leap into action remember that things change and for some changes we are extremely thankful.  Remember stirrup pants and zubaz pants , or have we all chosen to forget because it was just that awful? In a day of originality, it is easy to get swept up in the movement to be yourself, make your mark and be different. Finding the fine line between who we are and what we will regret doing 10 years from know can be hard. You can do it. We can help.


Flower Girl Dresses

Flower girl dresses: Why they do not have to break the bank It has been said before and it certainly will be said again, being a part of a wedding is expensive. Like mind blowing expensive. Especially if you are the only one in your circle of friends that has a girl and everyone wants her cute adorable self for their big day.  Now I know that you are flattered and nothing would make you happier than to see your little one all gussied up, but somewhere behind your excitement is the impending doom of your bank account. Here are 5 inexpensive and ridiculously beautiful flower girl dresses.

1.The Tutu Flower Girl Dress is an amazing and inexpensive way to have your little girl look like a princess. If you are looking to purchase one they range in price on etsy from 30$ for a ver simple to 600$ for an elaborate one. Like with everything, you get what you pay for. Now, before you go and drop a good amount of money on these little beauties, this is an amazing DIY opportunity. There are many awesome YouTube Tutorials that can help you successfully navigate this tutu business. This little beauty was made for 20$ for everything you see including the head band and flower!

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2.Typical dress that is affordable. If the Tutu dress does not do it for you that is ok! Here is an awesome option for the Bride that still wants a "typical" flower girl dress. This beautiful ivory lace grey tulle lined flower girl dress is a perfect, affordable option for a "typical" flower girl dress. Thank you MonbebeLagos.

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3. Custom made romper. If you have a small girl you would like to have as part of your special day it is hard to ask a parent to pay good money for something they will wear once and then out grow. This custom made romper can be an amazing awesome. Not only is it affordable but can be customized, unique and worn again.  All things parents love. Thank you LBHCreations for your creativity and skills.

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4. Pillow case dress. If there is one thing parents like besides affordable is the ability to wear something again.  This pillow case dress is not only affordable it is comfortable enough and versatile enough to wear again. A win for parents and kids every where. While this dress may look too plain to be a wedding dress, add some accessories and it is perfect.

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5. Add accessories to an everyday dress. A dress for a flower girl can be found ANYWHERE. It does not have to be etsy, a bridal store or a show designated for wedding attire. An everyday dress found at your local department store can be just the right dress with the right accessories.  LadyBugKissesXOXO Boutique is an awesome and affordable location to find accessories to spruce up your everyday dress.


Happy shopping!